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Rick Wellstone
Male
66 years old
United States
Jehovah's Witnesses
"My father never spoke to me again after I was disfellowshipped. He would even cross the street just to avoid me, and this broke my heart."
I served as an elder in the Jehovah’s Witness organization, but I couldn’t stomach the elders' meetings anymore. All they wanted to talk about was disfellowshipping and how to avoid being sued. No thanks. I stepped down—and I told them exactly why.
Not long after, I left the organization altogether. I had seen too much. The abuse and rigid policies of the Watchtower were destroying people I loved. Some of my friends died because of it. I can prove it.
When I left, my wife—who was a fifth-generation Witness—filed for divorce. She now shuns me completely.